Nestled in the scenic landscapes of Eastern Ontario, North Grenville is a region steeped in history. Its well-preserved cemeteries offer visitors a unique glimpse into the area's storied past, serving not only as final resting places but also as cultural landmarks. These cemeteries reflect the lives and stories of early settlers and the communities they established. Among the most notable are Burritt’s Rapids Cemetery and Oxford Parish Anglican Cemetery, each with its own unique historical significance.

In the quiet town of Oxford Mills, a forgotten gravestone has emerged, stirring curiosity and intrigue. Discovered last fall at Oxford Parish Anglican Cemetery, leaning against the Union Cemetery vault, the stone reads:

"Sarah, wife of John Mills 
Died Feb. 4, 1855, AE 53 Yrs. 
Sleep, love, and lost one, sleep, 
Beneath the quiet sod, 
With peace and hope and pray, 
We give thee up to God."

But who was Sarah Mills, and why was her monument not at her grave? The inscription, along with the weeping willow symbol, hints at a tale of loss and mourning, yet the stone raises more questions than it answers. Where was Sarah buried? What happened to her family? Why was the gravestone left at the cemetery, and what should be done with it?

Initial investigations reveal that Sarah lived in Oxford-on-Rideau township with her husband John and their sons, who were born in England. The family emigrated to Canada around 1834, settling on a farm in Oxford Mills. The stone, in remarkably good condition, likely didn't come from the local cemeteries, as they were not established until decades after Sarah's death.

Further research uncovered that Sarah was buried in the "Old Methodist Cemetery" in Kemptville. Her stone, now found, has been moved to rest beside her grandson's, George Mills, in the same cemetery. Yet, a mystery lingers: where was Sarah's gravestone kept all these years, and why was it not placed at her grave?

The mystery of Sarah Mills' final resting place invites you to help uncover the full story. If you have any information about this enigma, please contact Harold Tompkins at 613-258-2975 or This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

The Christ Church Anglican Cemetery, often referred to as Burritt’s Rapids Cemetery, harbors more than just the remains of the Burritt family; it conceals stories that whisper through the wind, shrouded in mystery. This tranquil site, associated with Christ Church built in 1831, reflects the deep roots the Burritts established in the community. Yet, as you wander through the cemetery, you can’t help but sense that each gravestone holds secrets waiting to be uncovered.

Although the exact number of Burritts who lived in Burritts Rapids remains uncertain, their legacy is vividly etched in the numerous gravestones scattered throughout the cemetery. Each marker, bearing the Burritt name, reveals a rich tapestry of familial connections and hidden narratives. Many Burritt women married into other local families, intertwining their heritage with the broader community, but some of their stories remain lost to time.

The cemetery stands as a testament to those who remained, offering a poignant glimpse into the historical continuity of this pioneering family. However, the intertwining vines and weathered stones seem to guard their secrets closely. A careful count of the gravestones provides a tangible link to the past, but the true stories of the Burritts are woven into the fabric of the village’s history, waiting for a curious soul to unravel them.

As you explore, questions arise: Who were these people beyond their names and dates? What events shaped their lives, and what untold stories lie beneath the quiet earth? The cemetery, much like the village itself, tells a story of resilience, connection, and legacy, but it also challenges you to look deeper, to seek out the mysteries that lie just beneath the surface. Will you be the one to uncover the hidden tales of Burritt’s Rapids Cemetery?

Exploring the cemeteries of North Grenville is more than just a walk-through history; it’s a chance to connect with the region's rich heritage and personal stories. From Sarah Mills’ mysterious gravestone in Oxford Parish Anglican Cemetery to the enduring legacy of the Burritt family in Burritt’s Rapids Cemetery, each site offers a unique glimpse into the past.

These cemeteries serve as vital historical records, helping us understand the lives of those who came before us. They highlight the importance of preserving history, honoring memories, and recognizing the cultural significance of these sacred grounds.

As you wander through these sites, reflect on the stories etched in stone. Whether you’re a history enthusiast, genealogist, or curious visitor, North Grenville’s cemeteries provide a profound and enriching experience. They stand as silent witnesses to the passage of time, inviting us to remember, honor, and learn from the past.

We also encourage you to explore the historical societies of North Grenville, Merrickville, and North Gower for more fascinating stories from the region. These societies offer deeper insights into the area's history and its people, enhancing your appreciation of the cemeteries and the broader historical context. By engaging with these organizations, you can uncover personal narratives and cultural insights that have shaped the communities of North Grenville and its surroundings.

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We extend our heartfelt gratitude to Bart Bilmer for his invaluable contributions of information and photos for Burritt’s Rapids Cemetery.